| Location | Singleton Hospital, Swansea, South Wales |
| Age | 31 years |
| Cause of Death | Cancer |
| Date of Birth | 27/09/1974 |
| Date of Death | 22/05/2006 |
| Visitors | 1,317 since 12/09/2008 |
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Julie was a fun loving person. She was also caring and faithful person and a great mother to all of the children, even though she was ill towards the end. She always put on a brave face, even though she was ill.
She meant the world to me and to our children, we had 3 lovely children together and she already had a son from a previous relationship, but I treated him as one of my children. So there were 4 children that I had to look after and it was very tough.
She never did any drugs, smoked or alcohol abuse. She was against all that, and she would help anyone who needed some help or support.
While she was pregnant with our last child, she was 37 weeks pregnant and she has never experienced waters breaking. On the way to hospital the ambulance and a car were involved in an head on collision. She fell off the stretcher and injured herself and the paramedic was also hurt in the accident.
The paramedics couldnt find any movement from the baby or a heartbeat, so another ambulance was called and they rushed her to the hospital and it took them 30mins to find the heartbeat. Luckily the baby was fine!! Thank Goodness!!
The hospital refused to give Julie a scan, they said that everything was fine, I arrived at the hospital with the children and I told them that Julie needed a scan and they still refused. So I told Julie to tell the doctor in the morning and demand one and they did and the baby was fine. After all that Mary was late and Julie had cesarian.
A couple of months later Julie found a lump in her cervix and everytime it was touched it bled. The doctor or the nurse didnt know what it was and they sent her for a checkup and it came back cancerous.
She had a hysterectomy in September 2005 hoping they caught it in time. When she came home after the operation, she woke me up in alot pain in her chest, and we both thought that it was just a cramp in her back. So I tried to help her, but nothing seemed to work. So I ran the NHS Direct for some advice and they decided to ring for an ambulance because she just had an operation. In the hospital they found that she had 6 blood clots on her lungs.
We had a lovely christmas together and I came down with Chicken Pox lol. Julie had a checkup to see if they managed to get rid of the cancer and they said there is a little bit left, so she had chemo, and she had a bad reaction to it, she went deaf in one ear. So they decided to give her 25 sessions of radiotherapy in January 2006.
On our wedding anniversary we were given some bad news the cancer had spread into her pelvis, liver, lungs and her breast. They had told her to go home and try to build up some strength and they try to see if there is anything that they could do for her. There was nothing more they could do for her. The hospital did ask me if I could stay with her for 2 weeks and I said Yes. So I made arrangements for someone to look after our children. My Step-father in law asked me how long do you think she got left and I just said 4 days. I asked if Julies Mum could take over for 4 days while I had a break. She sadly passed away on 22nd May, 2006. 4 days later. Sometimes I feel guilty in saying that, I hope that she can forgive me in saying that.
After Julie had passed away, I found it really hard to cope without her in my life, she was like a friend, sister, girlfriend and a wife all into one. I had a breakdown and I couldnt cope, then in November 2007 all of my children were taken away from me. They are now in Foster Care, and I am going to make sure that my children do know that I have changed and be able to take care of them.
Julie I promise not to give up on our children, I will get them back home soon. I need to get better and when I am I will fight for the return of our children. I will make sure that they are taken care of properly.
I love you always and your in my heart every day.
R.I.P. JULIE
HAPPY BIRTHDAY 27/9/2009
HAPPY EASTER SWEETHEART. XxX
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Is working all day long
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While humming a song
He is having so much fun
Making eggs for you and me
And small chocolate bunnies
That he gives away free
But when he is finished
He'll bring them your way
In a big coloured basket
Upon Easter day
Sending lots of floaty kisses your way xxxxx * . * * . * * . * * . * * . *
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I wanted to pop by today
to share with you my prayer,
of the thanks I give for the memories
that are placed within my care.
For now you're safe inside my mind,
locked in with a special key
and it takes but the fondest thought
and your face is there to see.
When it comes to you that isn't hard,
I think of you so often
and no matter where I am or go
to me you're not forgotten.
Memories
Memories are heartbeats
sounding through the years
echoes never fading
of our smiles and our tears
moments that are captured
sometimes unaware
pictured in an album
or a lock of hair
Images that linger
deep within the mind
bit of verse we cherished
once upon a time
through the musty hallways
of the days we knew
ever comes the vision
beautiful and true
Memories are roses
blooming evermore
full of fragrant sweetness
never known before
life must have a meaning
goals for which to strive
memories are lights that burn
to keep the heart alive
We Will Never Forget You
We Will Never Forget You
We do not need a special day
To bring you to our minds.
The days we do not think of you
Are very hard to find.
Each morning when we awake,
We know that you are gone.
And no one knows the heart ache
As we try to carry on.
Our hearts still ache with sadness
And secret tears still flow.
What it meant to lose you
No one will ever know.
Our thoughts are always with you,
Your place no one can fill.
In life we loved you dearly;
In death we love you still.xxx
Happy Birthday Julie, love to you and your family Lynne xxx
Memories
Beautiful memories are wonderful things they last till the longest day they never wear out never get lost and can never be given away to some you may be forgotten to others part of the past but to those who loved you dearly your memorie will always last God Bless
words of comfort
What a beautiful lady, I am sorry for your loss, I hope you will accept my condolences and read the scriptures i leave for you. Psalm37:11,29. God bless
R.I.P. Julie
My best friend (Mandy) died of cancer at the same age as Julie, my heart goes out to Julie's family,as she was soo soo young like Mandy,with little children as well, its just so heartbreaking,my luv & thoughts to you all xxxxxx
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